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Posted 04-17-2011 at 03:02 PM by Dynamithix
The girl I've had a crush on for 5 years now has a boyfriend. I know I wouldn't even have a chance with her, but still, it hurts to see her with the boy.

She's really the only girl I've ever felt for this way.

*sigh*
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Wings of Fire's Avatar
I know the feeling bro

I had a crush on a girl all through secondary school and she ended up dating this guy who was... really nice and good to her actually.

Still sucks. You'll get over it though.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 03:04 PM by Wings of Fire Wings of Fire is offline

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Dynamithix's Avatar
Yeah. The guy who she's dating is actually pretty cool and I understand why she likes him. But still... just dammit.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 03:11 PM by Dynamithix Dynamithix is offline

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Wings of Fire's Avatar
*Manhug*

You have, like, the better part of high school and then university to go. You'll find someone.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 03:13 PM by Wings of Fire Wings of Fire is offline

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STM's Avatar
I know it's not much consolidation, believe me I know, some of my blog is about the same thing but look at it like this...your still friends and now she is happy, at least for a time. And if the relationship crashes and burns, you can scoop her up like a damsel in distress!

Hive five!

Oh and apparently secondary school relationships are mostly poop anywho, maybe that helps?
Posted 04-17-2011 at 04:38 PM by STM STM is offline

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Wings of Fire's Avatar
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And if the relationship crashes and burns, you can scoop her up like a damsel in distress!
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That's repulsive.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 04:43 PM by Wings of Fire Wings of Fire is offline

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enchilado's Avatar
He disgusts me.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 04:50 PM by enchilado enchilado is offline

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Wil's Avatar
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Originally Posted by Wings of Fire
You have, like, the better part of high school and then university to go. You'll find someone.
Oh shit, my time at university is practically over. Now I'll never find someone! :'(
Posted 04-17-2011 at 04:58 PM by Wil Wil is offline

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Wings of Fire's Avatar
Isn't it sad.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 05:00 PM by Wings of Fire Wings of Fire is offline

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Alcar's Avatar
Life sucks. Fuck bitches to make up for it.

Alcar...
Posted 04-17-2011 at 05:01 PM by Alcar Alcar is offline

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STM's Avatar
But that's just the predicament Alcar!

@ Wings - You're personality is repulsive. Wham.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 05:14 PM by STM STM is offline

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Wings of Fire's Avatar
My personality which compels me against sexual predating is repulsive.

Yes.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 05:17 PM by Wings of Fire Wings of Fire is offline

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Alcar's Avatar
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Originally Posted by Scrabtrapman
But that's just the predicament Alcar!
He was talking about all that lovey dovey mopey shit. I was talking about fucking.

Alcar...
Posted 04-17-2011 at 05:18 PM by Alcar Alcar is offline

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Daxter King's Avatar
5 years?

Shit son.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 05:40 PM by Daxter King Daxter King is offline

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Dynamithix's Avatar
I know.
Posted 04-17-2011 at 09:23 PM by Dynamithix Dynamithix is offline

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Pilot's Avatar
Did you ever ask? No.

I won't even say "tough break, kid."
Posted 04-17-2011 at 09:35 PM by Pilot Pilot is offline

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CrissCross's Avatar
Sorry to hear that, i know it sucks
Posted 04-18-2011 at 02:05 AM by CrissCross CrissCross is offline

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Ridg3's Avatar
For future blogs that contain heartache and woe over some lost opportunity I'll say this, 'What's the worst she can say?'

Fucking go out and ask them, girls are people too.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 03:19 AM by Ridg3 Ridg3 is offline

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Dynamithix's Avatar
I know, I'm shy. And what's the point in going up to her and asking her out when she just started dating with another boy?
Posted 04-18-2011 at 04:39 AM by Dynamithix Dynamithix is offline

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Ridg3's Avatar
I'm assuming that you're thirteen, she's thriteen and he's thirteen. This isn't serious, not for the time being anyways and should certain circumstances occur they will most likely 'break up.' Then you can ask her but keep in mind that it won't be serious.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 06:29 AM by Ridg3 Ridg3 is offline

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MeechMunchie's Avatar
When you find a person who's really really right for you, you'll feel strongly enough to ask them out.

Love > Shyness.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 09:36 AM by MeechMunchie MeechMunchie is offline

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Ridg3's Avatar
Love conquers all, amirite?
Posted 04-18-2011 at 09:52 AM by Ridg3 Ridg3 is offline

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T-nex's Avatar
I can vouch for that!
Posted 04-18-2011 at 11:27 AM by T-nex T-nex is offline

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Dynamithix's Avatar
I guess so. :/
Posted 04-18-2011 at 11:45 AM by Dynamithix Dynamithix is offline

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Disgruntled Intern's Avatar
Did she even know you had feelings for her? No point in moping around if you never tried to do anything about it in the first place. And if she did know and had no interest in you, jesus christ, five years is a long time to carry that torch.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 02:14 PM by Disgruntled Intern Disgruntled Intern is offline

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Mr. Bungle's Avatar
What DI said, pretty much.

No offense, but you are only thirteen. You may think you have strong feelings for this girl, but come on. Come next year, there will plenty of more girls to look into relationship-wise. I know, I've been there.

Also, I'm in my last year of twelfth grade, and only recently got my first girlfriend. It's pretty common to not have one through High School. Not that you need one, really.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 02:28 PM by Mr. Bungle Mr. Bungle is offline

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T-nex's Avatar
Lol thats almost like Chris's friend who had a crush on someone for years, and by the time he finally got the courage to ask her out she said no... or she found someone. I dont remember. But he refers to her as his ex, despite them never having been together.
Really though, there will be others... And if she doesn't work out with that guy you can try again when she's available. And no.. this behavior is not fucking repulsive or despicable <.< It's normal. If a guy still has a crush on someone after they broke up with their current partner, then whats wrong in trying again then?
Posted 04-18-2011 at 02:30 PM by T-nex T-nex is offline

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Disgruntled Intern's Avatar
It's only creepy if he uses the pretense of being her friend to lie in wait for the relationship to crumble so he can step in when she's vulnerable.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 02:33 PM by Disgruntled Intern Disgruntled Intern is offline

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Wings of Fire's Avatar
Which is what I read into STM's comment.

Fucking ugly.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 03:39 PM by Wings of Fire Wings of Fire is offline

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STM's Avatar
No I didn't mean that, I meant that if she does lose her relationship, in time Dynamithix will have another chance. It's sort of hard to write that in any way that doesn't sound bad, it's not meant to sound predatory.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 03:45 PM by STM STM is offline

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T-nex's Avatar
Well of course any friendship with hidden motives is ugly... I would never want that.

Then Id just prefer the guy to be honest and tell me he had a crush on me even if Im in a relationship. I've never rejected guys who have done this to me. I just told them it's fine as long as they are aware that I love my partner, and they will most likely never be more than my friend. If they can accept this, I will accept them as friends too.
Posted 04-18-2011 at 04:13 PM by T-nex T-nex is offline

 

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