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Lost all of my closest friends

Posted 02-29-2016 at 01:24 PM by Job McYossie
So I did a bad thing recently. I don't wanna say what just straight up in a blog post 'cause anyone can read these. But anyway, I did a pretty bad thing to a friend and they hurt. And then he told all my other closest friends and now like, the 3 most important people in my life are just gone. None of them will talk to me. It feels so shitty and idk really how to handle it. I don't know how to process having the 3 people who I cared for more than any other suddenly, as if at the drop of a hat, hate me.
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FrustratedAssassin's Avatar
I'm sorry.

You should maybe just wait it out. They can't stay mad at you forever, especially since they were so close to you. You should try to reach out to them after some time has passed. Maybe apologize.

I have a friend who was in a similar situation except from the other side. He was really mad for a few days, then he got better and he's still talking to the person he was mad at. Friendships can be fixed.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 01:33 PM by FrustratedAssassin FrustratedAssassin is offline

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Job McYossie's Avatar
I have apologized. A lot. To everyone. They've blocked me on all forms of communication as far as I know.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 01:56 PM by Job McYossie Job McYossie is offline

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FrustratedAssassin's Avatar
Wow. That sounds a bit... disproportionate. It's a shitty situation and I wish I could help, but it seems like they're hell bent on cutting you off.

Edit: the important thing is that there are still people who care about you
Posted 02-29-2016 at 02:17 PM by FrustratedAssassin FrustratedAssassin is offline
Updated 02-29-2016 at 02:55 PM by FrustratedAssassin

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Vexen's Avatar
Well, seeing as you have left out the reason why they're mad at you, I cannot understand why they just abandoned you.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 02:53 PM by Vexen Vexen is offline

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Vlam's Avatar
Don't worry: I'm still your friend. Be happy.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 03:30 PM by Vlam Vlam is offline
Updated 02-29-2016 at 03:34 PM by Vlam

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Job McYossie's Avatar
things just get worse. The one that hasn't blocked me is saying such horrible shit to me I don't know how much more I can goddamn take this
Posted 02-29-2016 at 09:12 PM by Job McYossie Job McYossie is offline

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Vlam's Avatar
Let's be fair, you might be a terrible friend.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 09:15 PM by Vlam Vlam is offline

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Job McYossie's Avatar
for once, vlam says something non-ironic
Posted 02-29-2016 at 09:16 PM by Job McYossie Job McYossie is offline

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Nepsotic's Avatar
It was probably something pretty bad if this is how they're reacting. We can't have sympathy for you when we don't know what it is.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 09:36 PM by Nepsotic Nepsotic is offline

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Job McYossie's Avatar
I was dating this one dude in an internet relationship and then fooled around with this girl irl and then broke up with him the next day, then the three of them took turns telling me how I'm the shittiest person ever
Posted 02-29-2016 at 10:21 PM by Job McYossie Job McYossie is offline

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Nepsotic's Avatar
That's not even that bad, sounds like they need to get off their fucking high horse.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 11:16 PM by Nepsotic Nepsotic is offline

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Job McYossie's Avatar
they keep going off to me about how I'm selfish and never cared about them. After a bit I said enough, and broke off connection with them. It's fucking hard though seeing like, everything that was any of my free time just go away, and having these people I put so much trust in saying what they are.
Posted 02-29-2016 at 11:28 PM by Job McYossie Job McYossie is offline

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STM's Avatar
That's a bit fucking disproportionate, sounds like school playground antics. People do dumb things, I started dating my current girlfriend before I'd broken up with my ex (whom cheated on me and vice versa), even with that we came to a mutually agreeable parting. Life rarely presents you with text book fairytale romance, if you find someone better why shouldn't you pursue that person? Admittedly you went about it very badly and heavy handedly but I'm sure it's nothing a group of normal people couldn't patch up. It's solely between you and your ex, speak to him and him only about it, ask him about how he feels.

If all else fails, vlam is still your friend.
Posted 03-01-2016 at 12:22 AM by STM STM is offline

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Job McYossie's Avatar
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It's solely between you and your ex, speak to him and him only about it, ask him about how he feels.
I tried that but he went to our friends. It doesn't matter anymore, I've removed all three of them from my contacts anyway.

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If all else fails, vlam is still your friend.
Please, god, no.
Posted 03-01-2016 at 12:25 AM by Job McYossie Job McYossie is offline

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Varrok's Avatar
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Please, god, no.
That's just rude
Posted 03-01-2016 at 12:44 AM by Varrok Varrok is offline

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FrustratedAssassin's Avatar
So is Vlam.
Posted 03-01-2016 at 01:16 AM by FrustratedAssassin FrustratedAssassin is offline

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Nepsotic's Avatar
;_;_;_;_;_;_;
Posted 03-01-2016 at 01:31 AM by Nepsotic Nepsotic is offline

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Havoc's Avatar
Unless you straight up murdered someone, that seems like a pretty shitty response.
Posted 03-01-2016 at 03:26 AM by Havoc Havoc is offline

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Vlam's Avatar
Job, I'm your only friend on this planet.
Posted 03-01-2016 at 03:38 AM by Vlam Vlam is offline

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EVP_Glukkon's Avatar
I think this was a more positive experience for you than you may realize right now.

Clearly, these people hold no loyalty to you. Better you lose them now and make better friends in future.
Posted 03-01-2016 at 05:54 PM by EVP_Glukkon EVP_Glukkon is offline

 

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